I have 2 daughters, one in year 1 and the other is 1year old,
My husband calls me lazy and is pressuring me to go back to work which I really dont want to do as I missed so much with my first!
I cannot see his perspective at all, he has a good income so his excuse of more money does not amuse me in the slightest, if i were to go back to work it would be stressful on myself and no change to our finances given the cost of childcare.
His mother has just retired and he wants her to look after the kids whilst i work so we dont have to pay childcare.
This is not what i want at all. I want to raise my own children not give them to the grandmother to raise ( Shes also a money hungry cow ) my children wouldnt enjoy spending time with her. shes one of those people who think children should sit in a corner and make no sound.
I also forgot to mention my husband works away for 5 weeks at a time,
yep hes a douchebag