Advice needed please, what would you do?
So long story short DP and his mother aren't talking, after a fight his mother and we had a couple of months ago. In short DP wants his mum to apologize, she refuses so he doesn't want to speak to her until she does. Shes got me blocked on FB and he's got her blocked on FB. I also suspect his siblings are ****y with it all, taking their mums side and not asking DP what happened.
Anyway his 30th is soon and he wants to have his family there, which means we will be seeing her there for a dinner most likely.
My question is, seeing as we'll be seeing them soon and she hasn't budged, she'd rather not see her son than make peace. Should we just make peace and make her feel "right" for the sake of the family, or just go out with friends and not see his family? To be honest I'm over it all and just want things back to the way they were, but I'll always feel as though shes gotten away with it and can act that way again. I'm absolutely dreading seeing his family as we have not seen any of them since before the argument, so it's going to be so awkward at his family dinner anyway. If we are going to be seeing them again soon, would it be better to "pop by" one day before his birthday or just see them there?