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    It Will depend a lot of the temperament of the kids, my Dd was an easy newborn, and DS took to being a big brother very easily. If I had of had the kids in reverse order it would have been a different story.

    Anyway, here's some things I did:

    Before NB arrived
    -Play with dolls before newbie arrived and talk about what it will be like with a new baby

    -Read lots of new baby books together

    After NB arrived
    - I didn't worry about bathing newbie very often a all, maybe once a week if she was lucky. Takes the pressure off.

    -Swinging rockers are great, just teach the older one not to rock it for you, otherwise newbie will be in for a wild ride.

    -When I bf'd newbie I read a book to DS all cuddles together on the couch. I was lucky DD was a great feeder and could self attach early on.

    -Lots of cuddles all together, make big deal of being a family, everyone loves each other. I let DS cuddle DD a lot but always with lots of supervision, and told him the importance of being a big brother and how lucky he was and how special it is.

    Good luck!!

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    I once went for a walk around the block with DS for mummy and son time and left DH with DD alone. When we left DS yelled out "don't break her ok dad" !!

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    Give the toddler lots of one on one time when baby is asleep. Have nappy bag packed and ready the night before so u can head out as soon as baby wakes /feeds if u want to. Try wear toddler out with physical/mental stimulation so they will sleep or rest in arvo (took me ages to work this out, would have helped if I knew earlier coz my toddler refused to nap at 24 months and with a newborn I was exhausted). Also if u can, get toddler looked after for couple hours a week so u can rest/spend time with baby/get chores done. You will with things out as u go

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    Some great tips here. I had 2 under 18 months. I tried to keep the house full of food/snacks and a few that I kept back as 'treats' for when I REALLY needed DS1 to cooperate so I could feed the baby etc. Re the bathing thing- I never made this a priority each day, especially if I was home alone (and exhausted!). A quick wipe down for each some days. I wasn't prepared to bath both on my own as I was so tired I was afraid a mistake would happen. Safety first. Fenced playgrounds also became by best friend. All the best x

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    Some very handy tips here.
    My second is due in June and my DS will be 2.4 years so very much need some of this helpful advice!
    Thanks ladies 😃

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie Pallie View Post
    What happens if you're on your own at night, how do you get both safely out of the bath?
    I had my change table in the bathroom and all clothes and nappies ready on it so I could watch DD whilst dressing DS

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    Great tips ladies
    Thank you so much


 

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