I want to share this article with you - Which actually scares me quite a bit (simply because of how much it speaks to me)
I love my husband, I love my family, I feel safe, secure, loved, cared for and happy in most respects, but as far as sexuality goes, I am rarely (if ever) sexually attracted to my husband. It's a real problem between us that we've put down to emotional issues etc that we bring up with our marriage counselor, but this article makes me wonder whether its more of a physiological problem that many women like me face..
The last thing I would ever want is to stray from my husband, (and I'm not currently attracted to anyone else and know exactly how to not invite that into my life so feel pretty safe) but the whole idea that THIS may be why Im not attracted for the last so and so months/years concerns me.
I understand a lot of people wouldnt want to speak up/admit this because of the sensitivity of the subject and the implications that it makes you a "bad" person (which I disagree with, so long as you havent done anything its not your fault how you feel)
.. BUT if there is anyone out there who can relate, I think this might be a good read for you.
I can only guess marriage counselling is the answer? What else can we do?
Much love, -Ki