after #2 I was saying I was done - but magically one day I decided that I wasn't! a lot had to do with dd's medical problems, that I didn't want to regret not having another and DH agreed
but during & after #3 I am now definitely completely done, lol. I had an emergency csection with him and had it in my right mind to ask for a tubal just before I went in!! they tripled checked with me, I signed the papers and was completely at peace with it. still am.
I'm just emotionally, physically and everything else spent. I'm ready to move forward and concentrate on my 3 kids and adding another would be a really rough thing for our family.