Just feeling like everything coming out of my mouth, my actions everything is of no use, feeling like a ****ty mum. Dd1 just turned two and dd2 is nearly 4weeks. Juggling. My sis was here for two weeks, and everything was well when she left, mum then came for a few nights, and dd1 has been feral ever since. Not listening to me, tantrums, fighting nap time, and waking during the night, and getting a bit aggressive toward baby when she is feeling tired or wants me. Eghh. A mixture on being two, a new baby, and having people come n go im guessing. I've decided to not have anymore helpers stay, it's too disruptive, the help was good to have. Just getting a bit down on it with the behaviour change, and my lack of confidence is not helping, I tend to shut down, which is totally not good. How do you fight it??