Thank you for your replies.
She is a sneaky little bugger. She figured out that if she opens the door really slowly the chime is quiet.
I am going to move the frog tonight up high pointing down. Hopefully i can redirect the laser or whatever it is as we live in a rental and cant attach anything to the walls.
I actually feel like a prison officer going around and checking the house at night. Remotes get hidden, computer chair actually gets tied to the desk etc but it is really hard to lock down the whole house and she doesnt just do one thing specifically. It varies!
I also find that hiding things makes her see it as a "Challenge" and i worry again about her safety climbing up on things to find what we have hidden.
I am really hesitant about a child proof gate etc as she is finally night dry and i might not wake up quick enough if she needs to go to the toilet.
Ugh, i know (or pray, hope, wish) that this will pass in time but i am just so frustrated. It has gone on for so long now. I am not sleeping very well as i guess i am keeping one ear out all night so i am not really rested when i wake up.
DH starts work really really early and he is getting dressed in the laundry every morning and slipping out so he does not wake or disturb her. He even has his house key separate from his other keys so they dont make a sound!!!