Ok so given I have twins (Ivf conceived.. Unexplained infertility, had natural conceptions since but alas miscarried multiple times) and I've been thru ttc before..you'd think I'd be able to answer this question myself but im having a moment of self doubt!
We are ttc naturally and I ovulated last week on wed or thurs (confirmed by my fertility clinic as I'm having a tracked natural cycle) and I just feel like we didn't DTD enough. We did it Sunday night (too far in advance right??) and then Tuesday night (but in the shower standing up so does that even count? Cos does the sperm even stay in?) then Wednesday and Thursday. And Saturday for good measure.
I'm just thinking I've stuffed it up. Cos if I ovulated Wednesday then surely Wednesday sex is just too late. The sperm should be waiting there for the egg already then right? Which might have been the case if we had DTD lying down on Tuesday but standing up sex can't be that effective and Sunday nights really is too far ahead of time surely? Gahhhh it's so annoying. Felt like we had a lot of sex but I just think we timed it too late!
Any thoughts would be welcome