So I will be a new mom in September. Our due date is Sept 15th. I am not the one carrying the child. My wife is. But she can be so irritable. I feel like I can. Of please her she is just so miserable and it is so hard for me to see her suffer. Even harder to feel as tho I'm suffering too with all this anxiety its causing me. When we first decided to become parents and she would carry the child it sounded like Christmas. Well there is no snow flakes or candy canes here. Just high tension and a bad first trimester. I'm just at my Witt's end. I feel like she hates me and regrets that we even wanted Family. We are going on our 12th week now. Does it get any better? There has been no intimacy what's so ever thru this entire pregnancy. Literally since Implantation nothing. I feel like I've been hanging out with my buddy. I get frustrated because I feel like her friend and her response to that is "well I feel sick all the time" I !mean is it too much to ask for a kiss or a hug. Maybe ho!d my hand or tell me you love me without me initiating it every single time? Does any one have any advise or simulr experiences? Or is our relationship doomed?