@MrsBubbles this is the place to whinge! We all know what it is like. I feel like you so have to be your own advocate in this process. Even with the good ferility clinics you have to be constantly following up, chasing results, asking questions. That has been one of the major lessons for me - the only person who will really advocate for me is me!
Ugh the old POAS. Lets just assume those old ones are no longer working or your positive is still to come. I never got a positive POAS before my BT for my BFP so I hate the things.