J the ladies have made excellent suggestions. We all know you are a loving mum. And L is thriving xx she is happy babbling sitting and trying to move all signs of a well loved bubba.
Ds eats 3 meals a day plus 2 snacks. Plus 2 bfs. He has really thinned down so nurse told me to increase food.
Try offering breakfast lunch and tea with feeds between then increase snacks.
Let us know how you go xx