As the title suggests, when is it ok to comment on someone and how they're parenting?
I have a relative who has a 5mo. She's an advanced baby, she's hit all of her milestones early and is a healthy little thing up until now. They have said that after a visit to their child health nurse that they're only giving her solids now... No milk. I really can't imagine any nurse suggesting this at 5mo, and I have the same nurse and she told me the standard, milk first then solids until 12 months.
Do I say anything? When the grandmother told me I said "oh that's strange, she told me such and such" and she came back with "but she's far more advanced than your DD" so I think maybe I came across as a busybody which wasn't my intention at all! I'm just worried about her.
Do I say anything or just butt out?