We have a friend (distant) who is wanting to become a mum and has for a while she hasn't met mr right an is financial able to provide for a child on her own. She is now on the waiting list for sperm donations and was telling us about how long the wait is and how people aren't donation because of new laws in WA that requires information to be released to the child at 18 seems to have slowed it down.
My partner and I are soon to have our second and last baby and my other half stated to me he would do it, I was so touched that he cares about it.
We are umming and arring about telling her that he is happy to be a private donar we just want some info or opinions of people who have done it.
Our only concern is she is a friend who granted we hardly see but is close to other close friends. We wouldn't want everyone to know as it's not for recognition, just would like to know how people have felt/reacted etc after donating to a friend