Oh bedlover that's heartbreaking. There was a child abuse case last year at the hospital I work at where the couple had being trying for 12 years with countless rounds of IVF. The dad lost it and threw one of the twins causing permanent brain damage. I just can't comprehend it. The roller coaster of ivf is the single most difficult thing I've ever experienced and I got through, even miscarriage was easier to accept for me. I hope the other lady is doing ok and has lots of family support.