Terrible news about your friend Jay. I'm defn more aware of the risks I think than couples who dont have trouble conceiving and keeping a baby. I have a gf who is nearly 40 and is going to try for a baby naturally. She has infertility issues, PCOS and her DP is in his 60s. I want to tell her not to waste time with natural but everyone's journey is different. Maybe she will get 'lucky'.
Annerley v interesting question. My DH says no we stop at 1 but we have 4 frosties so I think I would like to try for another. As I will be 38 soon I think I would like to try in about 10 months after baby is born. DH says we can talk about it after bubs is 6 months old. He is worried about what kind of parent he will be I think. Silly really he will be an awesome dad.