That's awesome - in a situation where it all feels so out of control you've gotta grab control where you can! When DH goes over this week he's going to mention to Penny 9who runs the clinic we're going to) that if we can have a greek donor that would be appreciated. They often use polish and Ukraine donors - which given my pale skin might look more like me - but DH is greek, so greek characteristics wouldn't be out of place for us, we just think that it will be easier for our bubbas if they at least have a common ethnic hertiage as DH's family - rather than something different altogether. We are involved in some of the greek traditions etc (mostly food oriented!!!)... but at the end of the day, we'll be happy with whatever donor Penny says is best.
Love that you guys got on it and made your decisions and got it all happening so quickly!