Yeah, so we have decided to actually keep him all to ourselves tomorrow. DH and i are taking him out for breakfast, then out to pick his own pressie, then off to eat cake.... then lunch, then home for his nap. Then when he wakes we thinking we'll take him out again (he LOVES outings) and maybe had fish and chips by the river if the weather is ok, or maybe we'll take him to a children's play center. Man he's gonna sleep well tomorrow night!!
The grandparents seem to understand. Mum popped over and dropped off his gift this afternoon and she seems very understanding with what we want to do. The in laws probably wont be, but even when i do the right thing and include them its never good enough so whatever. I wanna have a awesome day with DS. No drama, no games, no *****iness. They can celebrate with him when DH takes him to see them which will be the following weekend.