Gah... have started spotting ... tests are getting darker though, but the spotting is stressing me out. Monday can't come quick enough for a beta.
Good luck for Mon Mrsmac
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Emski hopefully it's nothing.... Probably all a bit hard to deal with on top of jetlag... Hoping it sticks.
Mrsmac thanks - my last pg didn't show until 2 days from now but it wasnt a sticky one. You never know miracles happen I guess... At least testing early kind of let's you down gently. DON'T FORGeT ur trigger mate :P
mrs Erin r - yup, stocked up on frer too. I'll cycle again in may if this cycle is a bust.... When I am turning 41
Im sorry to hear that emski, not that it always leads to a bad outcome it is just the added stress I know. After everything thats gotten you to here. At least the lines are darker!
DH and I are trying to decide in a hurry whether to freeze any leftovers I need to have the consent form signed by mon morning. Its a money issue its not inc in the cycle cost. He is kind of confident that I might have good enough eggs and more money to freeze if we do another cycle in a month or so and build our funds again...he is of course basing this on the fact that when I ruptured I was over 7 weeks and it happened in 4 cycles with only 1 tube and I have responded easily this cycle. Not sure I am confident that there are any eggs in the follicles though let alone quality and well already they are nearly 4 months older and I keep hearing how all cycles are different. Wasnt it bertie just said the first one was your best. I guess in my ttc journey these are the youngest possible ones I have right at the start...the thought of throwing them out at this desparate stage.... if I dont freeze at this clinic this money would cover 2 stim cycles in the same calendar year,,.I think DH does not want to spend the money...but I think if I dont I may regret it forever
What do you think? I am turning myself in knots. To do an FET at this clinic also costs more than a stim cycle I dont know that might be normal.
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Mrsmac- 2 things, firstly 22 kg is absolutely amazing. Any weight loss is hard work, but sticking at it long enough to lose 22 kgs and keep going with it is just inspiring for anyone who has a goal, regardless of what the goal is. Pat yourself on the back (or your shrinking butt !) every day for being a fighter!
Secondly - freeze em. Freeze em Freeze em freeze em! Money comes and goes, eggs just go and you never get those darlings back - don't give yourself something you might regret and second guess later. If it is feasible for you to do financially, I reckon take the hit and tighten your belt somewhere else. If nothing else, you want to spare your body going through a full stim cycle if you can given you've had such a rough time of it ...
Emski - implanation bleeding! That's what it is, I'm convinced! Those little donor darlings are getting nice and comfy in there and doing what kiddies do best - making a mess! Hope the weekend goes quickly for you so you can get some peace of mind asap
@mrsmac123I would freeze if I could. I never get any good enough to freeze. It would be much gentler to do a FET and I've seen on some threads that some FS swear that FET is better.
@emkski72; bed rest for you, are you on progesterone? the ladies on my nk thread are always told to up the progesterone by one pessary per day.
Mrs mac have to agree with the others. Don't throw them out. What I would have done for a few good quality blasts to freeze?! Take it from me I did 8 stim cycles and they do take their toll on the body. Plus fets are now considered to have a higher success rate than fresh embies.
Emski it may be implantation bleeding or old blood. Hopefully it's a good sign.
Butterfly could be late implantation.
Mrs Mac, I agree with everyone. Freeze those babies. Do whatever you can financially to make it happen. Our bub is from an FET & I know our clinic have more success now with frozen embies.
Emski, still keeping everything crossed for you. It could well be implantation bleeding, but also the progesterone pessaries, if you're on them, can apparently irritate the cervix. So feeling for you! This time sucks. How long till official test date? Hang in there hun & know you're not alone.
Butterfly, you're still in with a chance. Remember, I didn't get my bfp with DS till 7 days past a 5 day transfer. I was testing every 2 days & got a stark negative on Friday & then tested Sunday & got an instant, clear positive. Keeping everything crossed still xx
Mrs Mac DO NOT throw those embies ! You have to freeze them as first cycles often don't work, just as a woman with normal fertility doesn't get pregnant every cycle. Throwing them away is insane. DH is 'counting chickens'. One of them could be your bubba! Since you have low numbers, you may not have any to freeze anyway, so don't stress, it's important you keep yourself mentally strong and in a calm 'receptive' place for those little embies that will hopefully have the best opportunity to take.
afm - headache, nauseated (cold sweats even), feel like sh!t. Looking at my symptom diary from last bfp, I had the same identical migraine and nausea hit on the exact same day, followed by a bfp on hpt 2 days later. I don't know if this could really be happening, but maybe 5am this morning I had a *possible* squinter, but I could just be losing my mind. Surely its too late ? It's d10p3dt. I'll test again tonight...ertgirl, I had a bfp last time by tomorrow with the same symptoms...but it didn't progress beyond about 5 weeks, but I was discovered to by hypothyroid.... Gah this is all so hard isn't it ? Luckily I have my 2 fluffy kitties for support. DH is away ATM as he is fifo.
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