Omg vixjc you had me laughing out loud at that! I never knew my sick leave balance before ivf, but 4 cycles as well as FS follow ups and pre appointments followed by immune specialists and ops means 10 days don't go far. Didn't help that I got made redundant 1 month before my wedding and then came back from honeymoon and started this job. So I have no sick leave accrued, and I hardly had sick days before!
So if DH goes out to Greece by himself now, does that mean you will be by yourself when you go? Is it like a stim cycle or do they freeze the embies and thaw them when you're ready?
I don't know how you are feeling, or the emotions you are going through, but I believe everything is probably normal and def understandable given what you are about to undertake. I have everything crossed that this is the one for you.