So a girl I know, probably less than a friend but more than an acquaintance, looks like she probably has an eating disorder. I don't know what to say to her but I'm watching her turn into a skeleton before my eyes on Facebook!
A bit of background, she is early 20s, we have played hockey together in a team I captained for about 5 years. I was always a bit of a 'mother hen' to the group as I was a few years older than most of them.
This girl had always been a bit chubby, then about 18 months ago she got right into doing personal training sessions and looked fabulous, won our best player award for that season.
Last season I didn't play as I was pregnant with DS, but we are still friends on FB and she looks terrible. So so skinny, ribs showing, no boobs left. And now I hear that she pretty much subbed herself off at half-time for most of the season as she couldn't get through a whole game any more.
I'm worried that none of her friends are noticing or saying anything to her. They are very much the 'go out clubbing in tiny clothes and post a thousand duck face selfies' types.
I don't want to just let it go, but what can I say, or should I even say anything?