I'm an undercover hubber looking for advice...
I don't think I love my partner anymore. We have been together for 4 years and have one child together. We had our baby very early into our relationship by accident. I'm convinced if it wasn't for the pregnancy that we still wouldn't be together.
We don't enjoy any of the same activities and spend very little time together. When we do it's strained and generally ends in an argument. We disagree about (what I see as) important values in life, and definitely what we expect from our OH. He wants a housewife that does everything for everyone, never complains, has little or no social life and definitely no male friends.
Before I met him I was very outgoing and bubbly, I feel like I've lost that person. I have cut out a lot of friends because he doesn't like them or want me to spend time with them. But then, he complains that I spend too much time on the computer or at home so basically I can't win.
I have spoken to him about my feelings a lot, he turns it into a big argument and belittles my feelings. I try to reason with him and make him tell me how he feels or what I could do to help the situation but he won't try. His response to everything is "just dump me then" (although I don't know if this is a joke or if he is half tempting me to do it). He would never go to couples counselling or even have a proper discussion with just me, he just becomes extremely immature.
Basically I feel like giving up. I'm willing to compromise and help the relationship but he won't, he doesn't believe he ever does or says the things he does. He only reason I haven't left already is because of our child.