My 19mth old
Feeds herself, takes herself to the toilet (mostly), helps pack up toys, picks pegs up of the floor/hands up to me, puts her dirty clothes in the wash, puts her plate back on the kitchen bench after meals and washes herself in the bath (not well at all). I still wipe her bum after the toilet, pick her clothes and dress her and make her bed.
My 3.5yo toilets herself, wipes her own bum (mostly but occ asks for help), packs toys away (if I specify exactly what each time), picks her own clothes and dresses herself (usually the same fairy outfit), puts on her shoes, washes herself in the bath, puts away her dirty clothes in the wash and makes her bed every morning.
I try to include them in whatever jobs I'm doing. Like HOF the kids help me when I'm cleaning. They have they sponges/chux and we do it together. No new activity can start unless the previous one is packed up and put away.
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