Thanks for the welcome! I was also comforted to know I'm not the only single woman taking this path :-)
I'm 36 (nearly 37) and I'm with Dr Burmiester at monash. I started @ MIVF but had my first cycle was cancelled due to no response. So I decided to move to monash as id heard amazing things about Dr burmiester and also there is no waiting list for sperm donors (I see you're still waiting for your donor - hope you get one soon!). So my new FS is throwing everything at me this time but has said unless I can reduce my FSH level there is no point trying as I won't respond to the meds and will likely get no eggs.
She prescribed me HRT for the FSH but I decided to try the natural route first. My Chinese med dr has had great success with women in similar situations so I'm holding onto the hope that this will work. He said I need to give it at least 3 months tho so I'm nearly at the end of the 2nd month and will see if it's made any difference yet.
if it does work then I will probably cycle in June. If it doesn't work then I'll try the HRT and go from there.