I just found out I'm pregnant, this wasn't planned at all, we had one contraceptive free slip up only weeks ago & I took the morning after pill within 24 hours - I'm just totally shocked that I am within the 5% that it doesn't work for.
My ex and his girlfriend are also expecting and I would be due only 2 months after them - how would it impact DD to have her Dads partner give birth to her sibling, then only two months later her mother? Aside from that, my DP and I really wanted to wait until we are married to have children together and we aren't in the place we want to be in order to have a child.. But I just don't know if I can go through a termination. I know that I want to spend my life with this man, but the timing isn't right, and I'm worried about how this situation will effect my DD . I'm so scared and already anticipating that this will emotionally scarr me. I've read up on medical termination but that sounds awful and I have been through a surgical termination when I was much younger and that process was difficult, although totally right for me then.
How will I handle special dates, ie what would have been my due date, meeting exDPs baby & DDs sibling? I just don't know how I'll cope emotionally, I'd really appreciate some words of wisdom from someone whose recently been there.. thank you.
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