I find the term birth preferences a bit more appropriate ie
Id prefer to tear rather than have an episiotomy
Id prefer to ask for pain relief than have it offered
Id prefer to have a natural 3rd stage
Id prefer Fred (my husband) to cut the cord
You get the idea, in an emergency these things might not happen thats all, and having preferences seems to go a bit better with hospital staff than a plan apparently my other advice is to keep it to one a4 page. Things like what music you want can be written down seperately for your support person to refer too.
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