I'm in. DF and I have been together for 12 years (13 in june) and engaged for almost 3. We go back and forth about when, where etc but I've been working on a Pinterest board for ages! Will come back in when not on the iPad and post my dream dress etc.
We want something very small (have even talked about eloping with the kids!) outdoors and non religious. Other than that... We are getting nowhere. Definitely small budget - under $5000. I just can't justify spending more than that on one day, especially when our commitment is already clear (that's just me though!!)