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    Statistically there must be lots out there but I feel very alone. DH has multiple sclerosis and it's awful. There's no other way to put it. I'd love to chat with others in a similar situation as I've found it really hard discussing parenting and general life with people who don't have similar barriers.

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    Sorry OP, I'm no help, but hopefully you can find some others on here who have had similar experiences. It must be really tough and a bit isolating without being able to talk to people in similar circumstances.
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    OP, sorry I don't have any experience but you're right, there should be some others in here who can chat with you
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    Sorry OP I hope you do find people to support you through this.
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    I hope you can find someone to talk to OP.

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    I would google 'support for partners of ms' (I just did and lots of links pop up), organizations often have separate, private/secret Facebook groups to chat with others in similar circumstances. This is how I found my stillbirth support groups, I'm sure there'd be something similar for you.

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    OP I hope you are ok and find someone to talk to.
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    OP, as a PP said I'm sure you could google for a forum that has your needs. Also what about some of the doctors/nurses that he deals with, often they do know of support groups for families. Good luck, I hope you find a good support group, I can understand life would be hard for you at the moment.
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    *Hugs* OP. I hope you find someone here who can sympathise. My DD has ASD, and I am a LONG term suffer of Anxiety & Depression (different, I know) these two things combined are a big drain on my husband & I know it. I make a big effort to make sure he gets 'time out' with his friends often. I suggest joining a careers support network.
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