1, 2 and 4 you just learn as you go. (I don't even know what a romper is??) I think we try and prepare but nothing really prepares you. All babies are different and will do different things. People who say ALL babies need to have a routine by 6 weeks are kidding themselves - that's not saying they can't it's just that majority don't.
Babies will eat and sleep for the first couple of months. Just be there to support her and help her.
When she's feeding offer her cups of tea and cold water. One of The best things my DH did was keep the fridge stocked with pump bottles of water. I hate room temp water so that was great.
Get her fav tv shows/movies on DVD/iPad so the long hours feeding during the day/night aren't so "dull"
Becoming a parent is amazing, terrifying, incredible, life changing and confusing. We learn how to do it everyday and sadly there's nothing that can prepare us for it.
Be hands on and helpful and that will be perfect
DH, Me and our two boys.
#3 due 30th Sept