Hey I'm new on here so not sure how it all works so sorry if I have done something wrong.
I basically just need advice on my aunt. Before having my first bub (Fiances 3rd) we moved away from my parents to be closer to his and my other extended family ect. So since having our daughter I've spent a lot of time visiting my aunt as a sort of replacement for my mother (that's not ment to sound horrible lol.)
Bubs now just on 6 months and lately my aunt has been getting really pushy (in a seemingly helpful way) Saying that I should go out an ect and she is more than happy to look after her. She says that I'm missing out on things ( I'm 19 ) that I should be doing at my age.
Since about 4 months she has also starting buying biggest ticket items for bub, like a cot just for her place and a high chair. What I don't understand is I have only left by once with her and this was to drive about 10 minutes each way to a bakery and an IGA. So I'm confused as to why she thinks she needs these things at her house.
She just seems to be getting more and more encouraging about me leaving bub with her to "have a good time."
Fiancé says she might just be trying to be helpful and what not but he isn't there often and when he is she seems to dim it down.
I'm really not sure if I'm just being over the top paranoid about this or if she is just trying to be helpful in her own way.