It is difficult to express how I feel...for ME i am really glad that I studied and travelled and had an amazing time being independant during my 20's. I do want that for my kids too...and they both already talk about all the places they want to go and about going to uni.
I loved what I had and think it was the best possible decision for me.
I don't think that young mums are any lessor...but if people ask me what I think is the best possible option...i would say "live and have a great time doing so and wait a few years for kids".
That does not mean that I think people who have kids young are wrong or not capable...but, my ideal is what i had.
I don't get why people get so offended by someone having a different ideal to them!