Thank you ladies, sometimes I feel like Iam being too judgemental of others but at the same time I don’t like wasting mybreath on people who say they want to change but never do anything. I think we have reached the final strawtoday. She’s trying to get pregnant with this guy because she’s decided since Ifell pregnant she is clucky. I don’t believe in trapping anybody with a childand think this is a very serious big mistake that you can’t take back. Myhusband and I cannot support her any further because she clearly isn’t listeningand her choices are becoming more reckless. I feel terrible that she has only startedtrying to get pregnant because of me and I don’t think I can look her in theeye and say I support her no matter what because I believe she’s being selfish.I will be contacting her tonight to let herknow that I need space as I think we are in very different places in our livesand as much as I want to help and support her I don’t believe going behind somebody's backand "accidentally" getting pregnant is mature or right. If she does turn up my husbandhas agreed to answer the door because he doesn’t think the stress of anargument is appropriate whilst I’m already pregnant and emotional. I hope I amdoing the right thing!