So hubby and I have been tossing up the whole vasectomy thing for a while now, we had also been tossing up a 4th bub, but due to my health I don't think it's going to be an option. I'm a maternal person and I either wanted it to be ok yep we'll have another and if not then time to pack up shop. I need closure to fully get over it and move on with life, I feel I'm half way there anyways it's just the doing of it part.
Is this a normal way to feel prior to hubby getting this done? I'm not the sort of person who could keep it undone for years "just incase" once we're done, that's it, like I said I want closure to move forward.
Honestly think the build up to the idea is worse then the actual thing.