Ugghh that's so annoying! Does she not get how hard this is for you?? my useless gyno keeps saying well I'll just refer you onto IVF. I said to him one day, you realise our nearest clinic charges 10k an EPU cycle and 8 just for a transfer cycle?? He looked genuinely shocked and said really? I thought it was only a few thousand. WTF?
People don't seem to get the financial and emotional costs of IVF, nor that with UI even IVF isn't a magic cure. I just feel like nobody IRL gets it. Everyone around me has no trouble falling, in fact I'm surrounded by women with 'woopsie' pgs *sighs* and these are the ones that keep telling me "maybe it's time to just move on with your life, maybe you aren't meant to have another". Yeah thanks for that