I am Kate and my partner is Butch, he has a terrible name but he’s a pussy cat don’t let the name fool you; we are looking to start a family so we can share our love and life with a baby or two or three . How we met was through work, I asked him to come and mentor one of the kids I looked after, we started dating shortly after that. We have been together now for coming on 6 yrs, he’s my heart . He is defiantly the level headed quite one in relationship and I am the fun spur of the moment one. We will be bringing a child of up in a family with zero racism or sexism or prejudice. We are defiantly animal people, I have a household that is completely cruelty free, by that I mean all my products from cleansers to makeup are not tested on animals and have the seal of approval from the choose wisely org, I am passionate about this. We have 3 cats at the moment and have done for several years, there chilled little things that get along famously with my friends baby, he chases them to kiss them lol. I have never had children, my partner had 2 children one is 25 now lives in USA and the other passed away when he was 18 in train accident, much healing has been done. Its been a very long road but he has faith and positivity abound
We both have a really large extended family and many friends that are all excited and have followed us supported us and felt with us through our journey over last 6 yrs. We see family and friends at least once a week so we have very full very wonderful relationships to bring baby into. Many of Butches relatives are in America so lots of holidays to USA with baby too.
We are both professionals in Humanities field, I work with under 18’s refugee’s and I am very passionate about my industry, my partner owns his own business providing services for disabled young people. For 22 years I have been working in out of home care for extremely behavioural young people. I do love my industry and really could never see myself doing anything else. Butch could always see himself working with the same kids but from a mentoring athletic perspective, because of his basketball background, he played professionally, so he puts sports into his programs and camps and outdoorsy stuff, his projects are always very successful, he is a great man and really great at what he does.
We have been trying to have a baby for a few years now with no success in IVF, my doctor suggested we get a donor. We are both really positive people who have so much love to give. At the end of the day we are just very relaxed giving loving people who have wanted a baby for years. Perfection for us is being able to decorate a Christmas tree and watching corny Christmas Eve movies with a baby or two or three . I even have names picked out one for girl and one for boy, perhaps it seems like jumping the gun, but without belief you have nothing.
I have a great specialist who I really trust, he knows my gynaecologist also and all my background, he won’t be available until March 2014, He is with Genea at Bella Vista. I am very open to discussions or questions and we will cover any cost of travel for donor and medical costs for the procedure. firstname.lastname@example.org
Kate and Butch