Ds (9 months) no longer self settles & i cant figure out why, i havent changed anything. So i just started doing what works (rocking) & dh cracked it at me because he's adamant that ds needs to sleep in his cot. He doesnt want me to go back to rocking ds to sleep again but wont give me any suggestions or alternatives.
And i had just rocked ds to sleep (i did it anyway) & dh insisted that he had to be moved to his cot (he doesnt transfer). I said no & that id hold him for his entire sleep like i used to but dh moved him & now hes screaming in his cot again. After hours of trying to get him down today. I could cry