It's not a great solution and to be honest after doing it for nearly a year I am over it.
I am going to try weaning get for the second time when she is 18 months and I am working on a suggestion from the no cry sleep solution of "making a family best seller", a book all about dd and how she has grown from a little baby to a big girl who doesn't need mamas milk any can sleep all by herself etc.
Sorry to hear your LO has reflux. It definitely wasn't that with my dd. she is just like her older brothers and too attached to her mama!