Jealousy is normal hun. I have had to get used to it.
Ds2 isn't talking yet. Cue no mothers group Jealousy. I don't go anymore. I got sick of the advice. You don't read enough. You don't talk to him.
You know your Bub best hun. Please just find what you're comfortable with and tell everyone else nothing. No one has a perfect Bub. No matter what they tell you. They will have bad nights to. It's just most mums don't talk about it with a mum that's falling apart. They like to put on a brave face and tell you it gets better. Some do it to make you feel bad but others just don't want to make you feel bad for them when your already having your own Issues.