@Hollywood– I never said we expected people to be surprised. In fact, I said in my opening post that I didn’t even care if everyone knew by the time we told them. We just don’t want to celebrate yet. We’re 33 and 32, just married, and my DH is from a big family and has been open about the fact that he wants one as well. We were never going to surprise anyone with this pregnancy, whether we told them after the BFP or at 12wks. I’m okay with that.