Thanks for your kind words.
I'm taking matters into my own hands this cycle. I'm on a complexBvit, vitex and elevit since cd2. As soon as DH gets home from holidays on tomorrow he will be put on menevit. I don't think he is the problem I think it's me, but it can't hurt. He needs a bit more good in his diet anyway lol.
I keep telling myself I will use this time to get fit and healthy but then I spiral and think well if I can't even get prg why bother be healthy. I know that's emotions not logic, but I completely lose my motivation.
At least we are getting our money in order and I know that's important. We are slowly paying off our debts and getting our savings organised before I drop to one salary. Ultimately I know that waiting a while is more beneficial for us financially, but I know we could have managed, and that's all that matters.