good idea Shrillian. our bodies can really mess with our minds cant they?
Babymaker hopefully this is it and you can tell your parents!!
when is af actually due? do you normally get spotting before?
That's the thing nic I'm 4 days late for af and I'm about 13dpo have short lp so I'm still hoping it's ok. Hope this isn't tmi but I'm still spotting and drips in urine however still nothing on pad which I normally have straight away so I'm praying it's a good sign. Just gonna think positive will test tomorrow morning regardless just to check. It's strange for me not to have any stretchy cm with spotting so things are very different to my "norm"
any thing thats different is a sign that this could be it. i was 18dpo before i got a positive and it was so faint! you might just be like me and take a while.
but its great that af is late. thats the best sign of all.
im starting to get crampy which is common for me the week of O because of my endometriosis so this is the week. i guess i will start my tww at the end of the week. the tww is the worst bit!
Well that's the thing nic I've actually had 2 faint pos bfps already since the day I should have had af lol that's why I'm thinking it may be a chemical or mc? May be too early to be classified as a Mc though. Will let you know what happens with results tomorrow really hope it's good news
good luck i will have my and i really hope its a sticky bean. my faint took days before becoming a dark line so theres still a good chance! come on hcg!!!
So if you get a pos tomorrow you might still feel uneasy about the spotting. If you get bloods done you can see if they are rising
However it is a good sign that you've still got preg symptoms - fx for you!!
Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought A chemical preg is the same as a MC. They only call it a chemical preg because they've only diagnosed the pregnancy with a HPT or bloods and NOT a scan.
There's no difference?
I'm still feeling slightly crampy. It feels more like AF cramps as it's low and 'heavy' feeling. No idea how long my LP is as I haven't had a 'natural' period in god knows how long (the last 10 years I've been either pregnant, breast feeding or on the pill)
So AF could be days away. I'm at 8DPO. So not sure?
Won't be to disappointed if I'm not UTD as that was the plan and also I have a wedding in qld in September and if I'm UTD then I can't go because my EDD will be 19th sept! But if I'm not UTD then I will be able to go as I'll be due anywhere from OCT onwards
DH, Me and our two boys.
Lost our little squirt 20/11/13.
Last edited by lexim; 04-01-2014 at 17:44.
A chem is technically a mc yes. It's just so early that it's just normal AF that expels it. Mc expels itself. Or doesn't... But u know what I mean....
If you normally have a short LP then that could just be breakthrough spotting. That would be understandable. Is suggest getting another frer and a digi. Frer in the morning with fmu. If no difference then yes I would suggest seeing a doc.
Feeling a bit down in the dumps today
Here I am starting my 5th cycle with no hint of a bfp. I was so sure this was going to be an easy journey I didn't prepare myself for the whatifs. I know I can't really complain what with others who have literally been trying for years, or who have serious medical conditions... But seriously I'm not handling this very well. I need that bubba :-(((
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