I was wondering how long you should get ewcm before Oing?
im cd12 and very rarely O on cd14 but i got ewcm today, not a lot but some and my cervix is softening and getting high.
i wasnt planning on bd today but was going to every day from tomorrow.
Do you think the first day of ewcm means i should today? i wanted dh swimmers to build up
Oh I really hope you ladies are right it's going to be a complete let down if it turns to nothing over the next couple of days! Should it get darker day by day? Or does that depend on individuals?
Nic I really hope it's a bfp like you said! With the ewcm I'm not too good with all of that but if your willing to bd I'm sure it won't hurt our doc said the whole "too much bding" does not exist and his swimmers will be fine
Hi can you please add me? Actively ttc, officially cycle 3, unofficially cycle. 5. Baby #2 and testing 20 th jan,
I'd love to be added to the list too please MrsTugs - I'm 31 DH is 32 and we're trying for our first bub. We're onto cycle #4.
Am hoping for a bumper year of BFPs for all of us!!!
I know I'm getting ahead of myself but when do you go see gp for bloods? Just as soon as you get a bfp?
they wanted to wait 4 days to retest my bloods so i would do a frer tomorrow and if its darker then go for bloods if it looks the same then wait another day or 2.
ok im sticking to my plan of bd every day from tomorrow for the next week.
i can tell i will O soon as im getting pimples so im sure skipping today wont matter but tomorrow i will use a maybe baby gel.
thanks for your advice ladies
I started using the opks yesterday and I've got a darker line this morning from yesterday's tests. Hopefully I'm actually ovulating on my own and am in with a chance for this month!!
I'll keep testing and might start the BD-ing today!! Fx!!
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