People can be so insensitive. We had the same when we were pregnant with ds2 and announced we were having another boy. I actually wanted 2 boys and didn't see a pigeon pair as ideal as so many seem to. Now we are hoping for a third baby and it's worse because people assume that we want a girl because we have 2 boys already. I would be quite content with another boy, dh would like a girl but it doesn't really matter, we won't be disappointed with either sex.