You know what else....I'd love a daughter one day, but if that never happened I wouldn't be devastated. However, with people often pointing out that I don't have one, it makes my heart ache a little. Also, already having three sons, and a DF who is not so keen for another child will make it a bit difficult to see whether theres a daughter waiting in the wings
She bought a few 'neutral' things for DD2 before she was born and they are mostly blue.
Me 39 DF 35
DD ICSI April 2011
DD natural November 2013
Yes, but not with this pregnancy. We found out a few weeks ago that we're expecting another boy which we're over the moon about (we would be fine with another girl too). We have 2 girls and a boy already so it even things out..but with past pregnancies I did have a few people say "oh well, better luck next time" sort of thing. As long as baby is ok and all that, then gender shouldn't really matter and people should keep their silly, unwanted comments to themselves.
We have 3 daughters and I've had this a lot as well. My 3rd daughter, no one came to the hospital except my husband because it was just another girl
Heartbreaking! I'm grateful to be even able to have children, so whatever I'm meant to get, is what I'm happy with. Wouldn't change my princesses for anything!
If I get asked one more time"when are you going to try for a boy" I'll probably punch the person in the face! Hahahahaha! Enough already! Be happy with what you have
DH & I Married since 2005
DD1 March 2008
DD2 April 2009
DD3 October 2010
I still get it now, we are well and truly finished having children, but almost every day I get these "poor you" type comments, "of course you'll try for a girl". Um, no - I have been blessed with 4 beautiful children - gender means nothing, absolutely nothing at all to me - I consider myself very lucky.
People are just so strange sometimes!
I am pregnant with beautiful boy #4.
when I told MIL she said "oh well your not happy, I'm not happy but I bet ds3 is"
I was pi$$ed!! Of course I'm happy!!
When I had my DS 3 I had people ask me when they saw him, 'So are you going to try again for a girl?' No congratulations or anything. Very rude.
Mother to three gorgeous little men
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