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    Quote Originally Posted by mystique1 View Post
    I have made a decision to terminate the pregnancy.

    It has not been any easy decision to come to and I feel absolutely miserable, but there is no other way.
    You don't seem to be at any kind of peace with this decision. There is always another way- you could just come clean. You are making a decision based on what you assume the reaction might be. What if you're wrong?
    I really think you should see a counsellor before you go ahead with a decision either way. Your decision should be based on what you want and need not on what you think someone else might do. All the best with whatever you choose to do xx

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    I agree with the above..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Atropos View Post
    You don't seem to be at any kind of peace with this decision. There is always another way- you could just come clean. You are making a decision based on what you assume the reaction might be. What if you're wrong?
    I really think you should see a counsellor before you go ahead with a decision either way. Your decision should be based on what you want and need not on what you think someone else might do. All the best with whatever you choose to do xx
    Yep this

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    Quote Originally Posted by mystique1 View Post
    I have made a decision to terminate the pregnancy.

    It has not been any easy decision to come to and I feel absolutely miserable, but there is no other way.
    As someone who had an unplanned pregnancy to someone I wasn't in a steady relationship with (though I've known him over 10 years), I can understand your decision. Hugs x

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    How are u going OP?


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    I went ahead and had the termination :-(

    I have not seen or heard from the 1st guy since. The 2nd guy has been a wonderful support.

    Emotionally I'm a bit all over the place at the moment.

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    Hugs Hun, glad you have some support even if it's not from who you want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mystique1 View Post
    I went ahead and had the termination :-(

    I have not seen or heard from the 1st guy since. The 2nd guy has been a wonderful support.

    Emotionally I'm a bit all over the place at the moment.
    The 1st guy is the one you had feelings for isn't it? I had a feeling he wasn't going to stick around regardless of the pregnancy. I'm glad guy 2 is there for you at least. I'm so sorry you felt you had to have a termination. They're so hard on your heart. Hugs **

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