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    Default *Vent* Stupid thing by brother said today.

    Today we had a BBQ at my mums and I was talking to my brother about ttc and my chem in October (I've had 1 m/c and 1 chem this year) and his reply was "have you considered that maybe your only meant to have 2 (kids). I know he didn't say it to be mean but it made me want to slap him.

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    After spending over a year doing fertility treatment, then falling pregnant and ending up with Hyperemesis my dad said something very similar that, people who cant fall pregnant naturally should take it as a sign that they're not designed to have children... It was awful at the time as i'd just been discharged from hospital for dehydration...

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    Idiot! What an insensitive and ignorant thing to say. I would have slapped him, at the very least verbally.

    Sorry you've had a difficult day!

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    Quote Originally Posted by fullofhope View Post
    After spending over a year doing fertility treatment, then falling pregnant and ending up with Hyperemesis my dad said something very similar that, people who cant fall pregnant naturally should take it as a sign that they're not designed to have children... It was awful at the time as i'd just been discharged from hospital for dehydration...
    That's his theory to, if its not happening naturally then its not meant to happen. which is just so stupid.

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    Oh ffs what a knob, maybe send him a thought out sms later xoxo

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    That would of upset me too. Big hugs! I'm sure he didn't mean to upset you.

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    Bloody brothers! My brother was an *** when I feel pregnant with dd2, he said why bother look what happened to the 1st one! Born 10 weeks prem! My dad and him had a biff on after that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissSparkles View Post
    That would of upset me too. Big hugs! I'm sure he didn't mean to upset you.
    Thanks, I don't think he did either, he just doesn't have kids and doesn't get it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joalisha View Post
    Bloody brothers! My brother was an *** when I feel pregnant with dd2, he said why bother look what happened to the 1st one! Born 10 weeks prem! My dad and him had a biff on after that!
    Hugs, they really just don't get it. Does he have kids??

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    Quote Originally Posted by CassJ View Post
    Hugs, they really just don't get it. Does he have kids??
    He does now, didn't then!


 

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