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    Default Shared sleeping arrangements

    We are a blended family with another one on the way. At present Miss 6 and Mr 2 have their own rooms, they have shared before at 4yrs and 10months. We are trying to find solutions to sleeping arrangements once baby comes. We only have a 3br house and can't afford anything more. We initially thought we'd have Bub in our room with us for about 1 year but my partner suggested Miss 6 and Mr 2 sharing again. I hadn't really thought about it but was wondering if anyone else has opposite sex siblings sharing rooms? Also, would it be a better idea to have Bub in our room for the projected year and then have him/her share with the same sex sibling from then?
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    My DS 8 and DD2 is 4 and they share a room no dramas

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    Legally after a certain age of the oldest opposite sex siblings can't share a room.
    We were in the same predicament, but with more children. Have 3 sons and 1 daughter in a 3 bedroom house, thankfully we are having another girl.
    I would put bub in room with same sex once out of your room

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseBetweenTheThorns View Post
    Legally after a certain age of the oldest opposite sex siblings can't share a room.
    We were in the same predicament, but with more children. Have 3 sons and 1 daughter in a 3 bedroom house, thankfully we are having another girl.
    I would put bub in room with same sex once out of your room

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    Is this for real? Iv never heard this law mentioned before?

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    There is no such law in Australia.

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    Law or no law there is no way I would put op sex children in the same room once they were heading into puberty.

    SIDS rec baby rooms in anyway so that's what I would do for now, than I would put the same sex children in a room to share.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseBetweenTheThorns View Post
    Legally after a certain age of the oldest opposite sex siblings can't share a room.
    We were in the same predicament, but with more children. Have 3 sons and 1 daughter in a 3 bedroom house, thankfully we are having another girl.
    I would put bub in room with same sex once out of your room

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    Can you please link me to where you saw this? Thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by HugsBunny View Post
    There is no such law in Australia.
    lol id love to know how they would police such a law? do ppl go round checking homes and seeing who sleeps where? hahaha can just picture the bedroom police knocking lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by headoverfeet View Post
    Law or no law there is no way I would put op sex children in the same room once they were heading into puberty..


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    At 6 and 2 I don't think the OP has to worry about that for a while yet....

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    Quote Originally Posted by CleverClogs View Post
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    At 6 and 2 I don't think the OP has to worry about that for a while yet....
    That's why I said "heading into puberty".


 

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