Both my daughters are baptised with 2 godfathers and 1 godmother (dh and my siblings) thinking they would always love and be in their lives. Meanwhile my "brother" is an alcoholic, recently he was in a alcohol fuelled rage and attached my mother, myself and pregnant fiancé in front of my children and 2 of his. (It was brutal and police were involved)
he didn't care that my youngest was traumatised and suffered nightmares following the incident. Today christmas he didn't even text them or anything. I did text him as his youngest daughter is my goddaughter and nothing no response. His fiancé has since sided with him even though he assaulted her also.
I do not want ANY connection with him anymore. My daughters were baptised in August, and thought considering they have 2 godfathers if it was possible to remove him.
Please this is hard so do not judge.