@Kymbo82 that's a hard one. I think everyone is different as to when it shows up. You don't want to test early, get a bfn and be down when in actuality it ends up a bfp.
You're 9dp5dt right? That would be 14dpo so technically it should show up, but it might not also. Damn, it's so hard! I tested early on 3 of my cycles, I kind of thought it wasn't going to work so it gave me a chance to get used to it before the 'official' testing date. On my last cycle I didn't test and I liked the feeling of hoping that it had worked right up to when I tested. Although it hit me harder the last time and I struggled through the first couple of days.
Sorry, I've probably not been much help!