This is a question for single mothers and past single mothers who have now found love.
Do you think you look for different qualities in a partner now than you did before children.
I haven't been with a man since my child's father.. Over 5 years ago.. I'm now wanting to get back into the dating scene.
I'm finding the men I'm dating now tend to be more personality than looks.. To me finding someone who is kind and gentle and will treat myself and my child good is more important than someone who is good looking..
But I'm also finding I haven't got that special spark and last I used to get
Do you lose that once you have kids.. I'm too busy looking out for pedifiles and non smokers :s
Do you think you can grow to love someone if that lust is not originally there?
Or does all this just mean I need more time alone?
I hope all this makes sense... Please no nasty replies.