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    Default Who's in charge of teaching your kids morals---you or your DP/DH?

    DH rarely bothers with 'imparting' moral values to our kids, things like sharing, honesty, caring and things. This role falls on my shoulders most of the time and sometimes I get really tired of doing it, like breaking up a fight or argument the kids are having. I also sometimes wonder if I'm on the right track. Seriously, what are men for? Does your DP/DH offer to teach morals and things?

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    Most definitely me.

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    It's always me too. The kids can sit there just meters away from dh fighting and arguing and he's oblivious to it...arghhhh

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    Both of us pretty equally I think

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    Both of us. We are both their parents. DH also teaches sharing, impulse control, empathy. He doesn't believe parenting is 'women's work'.

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    We do it equally, he is just as much a parent as I am.

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    Mostly me, because I am with them way more than my husband is.

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    Both of us

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    Definitely both of us. DH has a huge amount of patience and will explain in depth things he/we are trying to teach them.

    However, as I am with them more hours of the day, a large amount of it falls to me.

    I do feel 100% supported by him though. Sometimes if I am worried about a particular thing we will talk it through together and he will give suggestions of things I could try. For example, DD2 is going through a stage of being quite 'unfriendly' (for want of a better word) so I have been debriefing and we are (hopefully) working through it together.

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    We are both responsible.

    I am with the kids more as I'm a SAHM but I will let df know about our day so that he can help continue with the kids.

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